Is Apologizing When Not at Fault More Respectful?
When I moved from the US to Japan, I was struck by how differently we handle apologies. Here, a store clerk will bow and apologize for a product defect that's clearly the manufacturer's fault—it felt performative at first. But after a year, I've come to see it as a genuine expression of responsibility for the customer's experience. Is the Japanese habit of apologizing even when not at fault a more respectful approach, or does it just blur accountability?