My grandfather, 78, manages his entire life through an Android phone he got last year, while my grandmother refuses to touch one and says she prefers writing letters. The generational gap isn't just about technology—it's about how we define dignity and independence as we age. Should society push harder to get elderly people online, or is that expectation ageist and disrespectful of their choices? I've seen both sides in my own family, and I still don't know which is right.