Marriage is often sold as a lifelong commitment, but I've watched too many couples stay together out of fear rather than love. My own parents divorced when I was twelve, and honestly, it was the healthiest thing they could have done. Should we really be pushing people to stay married 'for better or worse' when that phrase was written in an era when women couldn't even open a bank account? Research shows that unhappy marriages can actually harm your physical health as much as smoking, but we still treat divorce as a failure.